Dating: How Do I Meet a Bi Girl Near Me?

You've joined BiCupid so now what? You obviously want to meet another bi girl, preferably within driving distance, but where do you start? Right here.

1. Completely fill out your profile. It's cute to say "I'll get back to this later" but the truth is, you're missing a lot of members who are browsing during hours when you are not online, if your profile is incomplete. So after you join and log back into the site, use the "Edit My Profile" option in your Profile Manager at the top of your profile page to fill in all the areas you skipped when you registered. Use the Change My Photo to add a profile picture of yourself, so we can see you and get to know you.

2. Find your inbox. You have an inbox for mail from other members. Just click the "Mail" menu tab at the top of the page. There is also a short-cut message indicator on the top of your profile page, as well as on the home page where you login. You can send messages to any other members by using the drop-down menu to the right of your inbox page. You can also create contact lists.

3. Look for other members. You can do this several ways, and I recommend all of them. Go to the "Matchmaker" top menu tab and look at all the submenu options. Use the "Member Map" and enter the location you want to search and the radius option (10 miles, 25 miles, etc.). Click on "Members in my State". Do a search of all members by clicking the top menu tab "Members" and entering one option to search at a time. Go for it. Look at all the members in your area, request connections with them, write on their walls, send them private messages. Welcome the newbies each time you log in. Go to "New Members" under the Members menu tab.

4. Upload pictures of yourself. Under the "Photos" menu tab, the first sub menu is "Upload Photo(s)." Click on that and follow the directions.

5. Go to the "Photos" top menu tab and view other member photos, make comments and vote on them. You can actually click the member name in the photo gallery and it will take you to their profile so you can read up on them further. Hopefully make a connection or send a message to them, too.

6. See what members are doing by clicking the "Activity" top menu tab. See what others are doing, what pics are new and click on their names to get to know them. See who's active by clicking the submenu item Last Online.

7. Use the member chat box at the bottom of the page. Click on it after you've been on the site and have checked your mail. Click on the member name you want to talk to and type in your comment to them. It's just like the facebook chat box. They are all here for the same reason as you so don't be shy.

8. Post in the forum, introduce yourself, make comments on other forum posts, member blogs, articles you read and anyplace else you find where you can leave comments. The more comments you leave, the more others will get to know you are serious about wanting to meet someone.

9. If you have any questions about how to find someone near you, or how to navigate on the site, don't hesitate to message me, Rachel. I'll help you out.

I guess the most important thing is, explore! Look around. Click all the buttons. Click the links. Click the member's names. Click everywhere and click everything and find out how everything works and where everything (and everyone) is! Have fun, get active and you'll make lots of friends. Don't wait for others to come to you, that's not how this works. You don't have to pay to be a member here, but you do have to put some effort into meeting other girls.
Have fun and hey, don't forget to send me your success stories! We love to hear about them and there have been many great ones already!

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