finding a bisexual girl near me" from members. I am truly surprised by some of the expectations of members who live in rural areas, where the population is very low. I'm talking about places with a lot of open land, maybe farm land, or barren desert, where there are not a lot of inhabitants.
Why do people expect everything to be at their fingertips? Maybe it's
the "microwave mentality" so pervasive in our society. I want it "hot
and now". No effort, no waiting, no work. Why does anyone expect
anything in life to be that way, much less finding another bisexual
woman who not only is appealing, pretty - dare we say, ready to do
whatever we want and willing to travel to our location to do it? To use
Saturday Night Live's popular Weekend Update News phrase, "Really?" I
mean, would YOU be willing to go through all that to meet someone?
Obviously not because you're complaining that someone else isn't there
to do that for you.
Here's the thing, ladies. Finding someone special, whether it's a guy
or a bisexual woman, is NOT as easy as making microwave popcorn (which I
love, by the way). You don't open the wrapper, lay it in the microwave
and push the popcorn button. We WISH it were that easy, but it's not.
It takes effort! You have to look through MANY members to find
someone who interests you to begin with. You have to message them.
Sometimes MANY times. You have to WAIT to hear back from them. You may
even have to get in your car and drive a few miles to MEET with them.
Yes, I said it! You will have to work for it.
If you think there is something magical about registering as a member
here, like bisexual women are going to rain from the sky, down on you,
you're in La La Land. My father used to say something that really
applies here. "Anything worthwhile doesn't come easy."
There are many, many bisexual women here who have successfully found
another bisexual woman who meets their requirements. Yes, we have a long
list of happy bi girls who have found a compatable match for them. Some
have traveled from Las Vegas to Florida to make that happen. And none
of them would change a thing. I even convinced one brave soul to blog
about her experience in finding another bisexual woman here. But don't
expect miracles without any foot work on your part.
So to those who say "there's no one in my area" I ask you, did you
expect to find a bisexual woman next door to you? Really? If you want to
find someone, you have to look and look and work at it. I'll tell you,
it will be worth all the time and effort you expend. You will be really
glad you went that extra mile and sent those messages, chatted with her
and dug through the member list to find her. Just be realistic about it.
Rome wasn't built in a day. And a romance or a friends with benefits,
girlfriend thang or whatever you have in mind, won't happen unless you
make it happen. So roll up those sleeves and get started. You'll be so
glad you did.