You could do what I do and learn to incorporate bonobo chimps into every possible conversation. If bonobos are too slutty for you, you could also try fruit flies, whiptail lizards or black swans--just to name a few of the bisexual animals that can serve as conversational fodder should your gaydar fail you. In fact,
If you've never had sex with another woman but are dying to see what it's like, you're bi curious! If you have a rich fantasy life which includes other women, and it turns you on, you are bi curious.
It's no surprise that so many women are bi curious. It's been noted
that nearly every woman is bi curious to some extent. More than half of
the heterosexual women in a recent Boise State University study
indicated they were bi-curious and the number increases as women age.
Over 60% of the heterosexual women in the study were sexually attracted
to other women. 50% had fantasies about other women and 45% had kissed
Lisa Diamond PhD, a psychologist at the University of Utah, did a
lengthy study following women who were interested in other women, over
the course of 15 years, documenting their relationships and sexual self
labels. Over time, the labels the women chose for themselves changed
with one key similarity; the older they got, the more prone they were to
identify as unlabeled.
This indicates that our sexuality is not so well defined and may not
become more clear as time goes by, but rather more diverse and therefore
less likely to fit into the confines of a limited sexual label. Our
desires and preferences may change over time. With a more relaxed
perspective on varying sexual orientations, more women are testing the
waters and following their curiosity to its logical end – experience.
The actual number of bi-curious women is hard to estimate. Likewise,
the number of bisexual women is a mystery, although most believe the
numbers of both are much higher than previously thought. Life is a
journey and human sexuality is meant to be explored. We only live one
life, so why not make the most of it? Get off the bench, experiment,
explore and find what makes you happy. Why limit yourself?