Dating: How Do I Meet a Bi Girl And Swinger Near Me?
You've joined MeetBi.com so now what? You obviously want to meet another
bi girl and swingers, preferably within driving distance, but where do you start?
1. Completely fill out your profile. It's cute to say "I'll get back to
this later" but the truth is, you're missing a lot of members who are
browsing during hours when you are not online, if your profile is
incomplete. So after you join and log back into the site, use the "Edit
My Profile" option in your Profile Manager at the top of your profile
page to fill in all the areas you skipped when you registered. Use the
Change My Photo to add a profile picture of yourself, so we can see you
and get to know you.
2. Find your inbox. You have an inbox for mail from other members. Just
click the "Mail" menu tab at the top of the page. There is also a
short-cut message indicator on the top of your profile page, as well as
on the home page where you login. You can send messages to any other
members by using the drop-down menu to the right of your inbox page. You
can also create contact lists.
3. Look for other members. You can do this several ways, and I
recommend all of them. Go to the "Matchmaker" top menu tab and look at
all the submenu options. Use the "Member Search" and enter the location you
want to search and the radius option (10 miles, 25 miles, etc.). Click
on "Members in my State". Do a search of all members by clicking the top
menu tab "Members" and entering one option to search at a time. Go for
it. Look at all the members in your area, request connections with them,
write on their walls, send them private messages. Welcome the newbies
each time you log in. Go to "New Members" under the Members menu tab.
4. Upload pictures of yourself. Under the "Photos" menu tab, the first
sub menu is "Upload Photo(s)." Click on that and follow the directions.
5. Go to the "Photos" top menu tab and view other member photos, make
comments and vote on them. You can actually click the member name in the
photo gallery and it will take you to their profile so you can read up
on them further. Hopefully make a connection or send a message to them,
6. See what members are doing by clicking the "Activity" top menu tab.
See what others are doing, what pics are new and click on their names to
get to know them. See who's active by clicking the submenu item Last
7. Use the member chat box at the bottom of the page. Click on it after
you've been on the site and have checked your mail. Click on the member
name you want to talk to and type in your comment to them. It's just
like the facebook chat box. They are all here for the same reason as you
so don't be shy.
8. Post in the forum, introduce yourself, make comments on other forum
posts, member blogs, articles you read and anyplace else you find where
you can leave comments. The more comments you leave, the more others
will get to know you are serious about wanting to meet someone.
9. If you have any questions about how to find someone near you, or how
to navigate on the site, don't hesitate to message me, Rachel. I'll
help you out.
I guess the most important thing is, explore! Look around. Click all
the buttons. Click the links. Click the member's names. Click everywhere
and click everything and find out how everything works and where
everything (and everyone) is! Have fun, get active and you'll make lots
of friends. Don't wait for others to come to you, that's not how this
works. You don't have to pay to be a member here, but you do have to put
some effort into meeting other girls.
Have fun and hey, don't forget to send me your success stories! We love
to hear about them and there have been many great ones already!