Love on a Bi's Site...

For all of you bi-curious, bi-sexual, lesbian women who think you can’t find real love on a social networking site… I’m here to tell you that you can!  Maybe it won’t happen the way you expect, or with whom you expect, but take it from someone who knows... It definitely will happen if you just be patient and don’t give up!
I found Bicupid.com by accident.
Really, I Googled it! Lol! I had just come out to my husband and I was looking to explore my curiosities of bi-sexuality further.  Although, I had dreamed of it quite often, most of my life actually, I had never been with a woman.  Where I grew up you didn’t speak of those types of fantasies.  Long story short, my marriage of 20 years came to an end and we went our separate ways. 
It wasn’t a perfect marriage by any means, but it did produce three beautiful daughters, each of whom has made me the woman I am today.  I’m sure you are wondering if our marriage ended simply because I am bi-sexual.  The answer is yes and no.  I did love him at the time, but I always had a feeling of being incomplete and not totally happy.  I decided it was time to take the journey into the bi-sexual/lesbian world that I had always secretly dreamed about.  I wanted to find the happiness and fulfillment I desperately desired.
 I’ve been on Bicupid for 11 months now.  Wow, it seems like forever ago!  I’ve met quite a few women on here, some good, and some not so good.  Lol! But I did make some good friends along the way.
I had just about given up on finding a woman with whom I could have a true, loving relationship with, when out of the blue “cuzIcan” peeked at my profile.  I had peeked at her profile first, but had totally forgotten about it because it took her so long to return the favor!  Lol! We started emailing back and forth A LOT… Emailing turned to texting, Skyping, then talking on the phone for hours and hours.  After getting to know each other better, we decided to make plans to meet each other in person.  We finally met the weekend of November 8th, 2012.  I was so nervous, but so excited that my dream was coming true.  That weekend turned out to be the best weekend I’ve ever had in my life!  It was everything I had dreamed of and more!  Since that weekend she and I have managed to get together quite a bit.  I have come to love her more than ever and can definitely see a future with her.  I have since come out to my daughters, who gave me their full support.  I have told other family too, but I’m still working on coming totally out to everyone.
 The difference between who I am now compared to who I was then is that I don’t really care anymore what people think of me.  I only care about living my life the way that I was meant to live it.
 So there you have it ladies.  You CAN find love on a social networking site!  Good luck!!

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